The story of Momma Black (looong post, but hopefully of some use to someone out there!)

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Hi Everyone!

I'm new to this site, and as promised in my introduction post, here's the story of Momma Black. I thought it might be useful to someone out there if I shared our experience with a former feral. When we were going through this, it helped me immensely to talk to my friends at the rescue group I volunteer with about their experiences, and I was searching the internet for any scrap of info I could get my eyes on!

It all started a little over a year ago, when my son and I came home in the evening I heard the unmistakable crying of a kitten. It was October, but it was already below freezing during that week, and this night was no exception. Once I found where it was (under our trailer next to our house), I watched and waited for the mom. At that time I didn't know very much about feral cats. I did know that the mom cats would sometimes leave the kittens in temporary locations if they were in the process of moving them to a new "den," so I went back inside and checked every once in a while out the window. No mom showed up, and that kitten kept crying for her, temperatures continued to drop, so I went and caught the kitten. I managed to get him in to the veterinarian I see for my personal animals that night. She estimated his age to be 4-5 weeks, and other than being pretty underweight, he was healthy. While we cared for him and worked on catching his weight back up, I put out food for the mom, asked neighbours if they had seen any cats or heard any kittens around.... nothing. Food was disappearing, but we never saw who was eating it, until my husband put out a GoPro camera. It was a little black cat, and a giant tuxedo tomcat (the kitten was a tuxedo also). I borrowed traps from the rescue group and trapped the little black cat first. She was the momma cat. I had never done TNR before so when I brought her in the trap to the clinic the vet techs asked for a name for her, which caught me off guard. I came up with the most unoriginal name of all time right on the spot: "Momma Black." Rookie!!

We never did find any more kittens, and I finally TNR'ed the tomcat also. I continued fostering the kitten until he was adopted a couple of months later through the rescue group, the tuxedo tom stopped showing up for his already infrequent visits for food a couple of months after (the clinic vet estimated his age to be 7-8 years), but Momma Black showed up almost every night without fail. 

We had a practical problem. We are a military family, and we knew we would be moving away in the near future. When canvassing the neighbourhood to see if anyone had seen other kittens or cats, it was evident that they were not sympathetic to "community cats." We knew no one would be willing to take over looking after Momma Black when we left. She was young also, the clinic vet estimated her age to be a year old, if that, when she was taken care of at the clinic. No other cats were showing up for dinner, and there were no known colonies near our neighbourhood. Things were not looking good for her once we would leave, and besides, I was kinda sorta falling in love with her. 
See that little black blurb towards the back? That is Momma Black, and this is the very first photo we managed to get of her!


And this is Momma Black today. 
 

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Oh!! She is soo adorable!!!! Thank you for saving her!!! Look how absolutely freakin content she appears in that picture. She's so little; how much does she weigh? How on earth did she survive outside??
 

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Could she look any more content??[emoji]128571[/emoji][emoji]128571[/emoji] Her story reminds me so much of that of our "former feral" Flick!! I've told her story multiple times before --but think you might really appreciate it. The fall of 2013 we trapped, spayed & released a tiny, 5 pound, year-old grey kitty (we named her Flick for the "flick" of white on her chest shaped like a heart) that we'd been seeing off & on that summer. The rest of our colony ostracized her (we think because she has mild cerabellar hypoplasia, so she "wobbles" a bit) so the poor thing was always alone. My husband was adamant that we not bring any of our TNR guys in -at that point we already had 5 indoor guys. We saw Flick only sporadically throughout that tough winter. In the spring of 2014 she started showing up more often, usually to watch my husband do yard work...always from a good 15-20 feet away. My husband started taking treats with him when he gardened. Soon he got her to eat out of his hand. Then Mr "we can't add another kitty" put a little pink cat bed on our back step. Flick started sleeping in it -- eventually getting so comfortable with us she'd eat treats out of my hand while sitting on my lap. Like you, we decided to open our back door & "see what happened." Flick walked in, and she's been in ever since! She's now the sweetest, most loving kitty I've ever had --the "lap kitty" I'd always wanted but never had! She comes every single time when called (again - unlike any other cat I've ever had!), jumps on my lap whenever I sit down & call her. She literally doesn't have a single bad habit ...has never once "counter-surfed", never had a single "accident," has never scratched or bitten, & fit right in from day 1 with our other guys.

Needless to say, we're beyond smitten with our "former feral." So when someone says "adult ferals can't be socialized" I tell them about Flick. :) I know she's one in a million (in so many ways!)...as my husband says " we're lucky Flick chose us." I think it sounds like Momma Black chose you :)

 
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Oh!! She is soo adorable!!!! Thank you for saving her!!! Look how absolutely freakin content she appears in that picture. She's so little; how much does she weigh? How on earth did she survive outside??
Isn't she gorgeous?! And yes, she is tiny. When she was TNR'ed she was only 5 lbs! She's now 7 lbs and some change. I honestly have no idea how she survived! Our neighbourhood is kind of woodsy, and we have a decent population of squirrels, moles, voles, etc. Fortunately, she won't ever need to worry where she will find her next meal again. 
 
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Ah, you're right, I LOVE Flick's story!! I love her eyes, gorgeous!! Thank you to both you and your husband for saving her! A couple of my rescue friends also have former ferals who have CH, and took them in even though their house was already "full." It's already a hard enough life out there for kitties that don't have any health conditions. I can't imagine how a kitty with CH could survive on their own out there! Thanks for sharing Flick's story. 
 

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This is the sort of post I was looking for this evening.

I have a mamma kitty outside right now (I've named her Tasha), with three kittens who are about 9-12 weeks old. I've been feeding regularly for 5 weeks. And I've put out two well-insulated shelters with some nice sweet-smelling straw, which they've just started to use now and again. 

I chickened out using the trap that a TNR specialist brought over for me. I looked so unstable, and I didn't want to scare them away.

Now they'e all coming somewhat near me, or letting me get within a few feet of them outside, but I've not convinced any of them to come inside yet.

I have a few complications with the one room I have with a door to the inside and to the backyard, where they live--mostly that the last stray I brought in from that same backyard still lives mostly in that room too in order to avoid conflict from my old resident male. 

I'm still hoping that I might get them indoors without too much drama, but I might need to just get them trapped. I'm really want to get the kittens somewhere where they can be adopted; and I really want Tasha to come inside and live with me and my other little misfits.

This story gives me some hope that I can get it done eventually, before the kittens disperse. AND before Tasha mates again.

Thanks,

Angela
 

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I forgot to say THANK YOU for the inspiration and for providing the details on your approach.
 
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AngelaD, I'm sorry I'm just now seeing your reply!

 I wish you luck in getting all the kittens and spaying mama before she becomes pregnant again. I was lucky, Momma Black left me her kitten while he was still tiny and relatively easy to catch. I know it would have been much harder for me if he were older and more mobile. Have you looked on the AlleyCatAllies website? They have tons of great info on trapping, including a mama with kittens! Good luck, I know you can do it!! 
 

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As you've already realized, we're "lucky" enough to get an extra breeding cycle - urgh :(. So all of us willing and able need to try even harder to get these next litters. As noted before, www.alleycatallies.org----you can often talk to a real person. And if not, their guided prompts are wonderful! Keep us posted!
 
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