Barb, don't every say stuff like that about yourself! Your friends are here to remind you they need an update if that's the case.... we know people get busy, it happens to all of us. We don't feel unloved!
Gary spent many years in the sun and has many moles and scary looking freckles on his back. It worries me sick. We've got to get to a Doctor and get his back mapped.
Just keep an eye on those things. Both of my maternal grandparents, Mom and I have had several suspicious lesions removed. Fortunately, all of mine have been either benign or slow-growing. Add 45 years of Arizona sun and.....
Glad he's OK. Laurie, keep an eye on Gary. I have Bill check the moles on my back, on a regular basis.