So I took Popsie to a different vet yesterday. I know someone who takes her cats there and she like them. Pospie seemed less stressed there and they even had a fish tank in the room. He hates being up on the exam table so I let him walk around a bit. I could have done that at his old vet but I wouldn't feel comfortable. The guy that saw Popsie was really nice. He spent a lot of time with us to make sure all my questions were answered and he explained things thoroughly. We were there for almost an hour. His other vet always seemed to rush it. This new vet charges a bit more but I think it's worth it.