My niece came this weekend and we had a great time. Thanks to everyone for the movie suggestions!
We did have a little trauma involving Gracie right before my niece went home. Although the other two cats tend to hide when she comes, Gracie was out and about as usual. She's never let my niece pet her, but does get close enough to sniff her. That's about all Gracie will do for anybody but me. I've always told my niece not push it and just let Gracie come to her. She seemed to be making progress yesterday morning and was trying to play with Gracie when she accidently hit her in the nose with a toy, not hard, but enough to startle her. A few minutes later, when she reached her hand out to Gracie, she hissed and nipped at her, although not enough to leave a mark.
This resulted in tears from my niece who had her feelings hurt more than anything. She said, "I'm never going near your cats again!" and then "No cats like me!" I tried reassuring her this is how Gracie is with everybody, but she wasn't buying it. I also reminded her how much the kittens in foster care liked playing with her.
I just feel bad because she so badly wants my cats to respond to her and it's just not happening and can't be forced. She loves animals but doesn't have any pets of her own. I just hated seeing her so upset!
We did have a little trauma involving Gracie right before my niece went home. Although the other two cats tend to hide when she comes, Gracie was out and about as usual. She's never let my niece pet her, but does get close enough to sniff her. That's about all Gracie will do for anybody but me. I've always told my niece not push it and just let Gracie come to her. She seemed to be making progress yesterday morning and was trying to play with Gracie when she accidently hit her in the nose with a toy, not hard, but enough to startle her. A few minutes later, when she reached her hand out to Gracie, she hissed and nipped at her, although not enough to leave a mark.
This resulted in tears from my niece who had her feelings hurt more than anything. She said, "I'm never going near your cats again!" and then "No cats like me!" I tried reassuring her this is how Gracie is with everybody, but she wasn't buying it. I also reminded her how much the kittens in foster care liked playing with her.
I just feel bad because she so badly wants my cats to respond to her and it's just not happening and can't be forced. She loves animals but doesn't have any pets of her own. I just hated seeing her so upset!