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She is normally a very caring, sweet, compassionate person. I really think the world of her...but right now, yeah, I am so disappointed in her.
3CatsN1Dog, I am afraid it will cause A to be angry at her mother, which would be awful considering she may not have much time left. That's where R thinks the timing is perfect and that it will give A a chance to talk to her mom about it before she passes. "imagine if she found out years later and didn't have the chance to ask her mother about it".
My reasoning with her failed because I am not adopted and have no personal experience. Apparently, common sense plays no role in all this. If I had some way to make her see its wrong, I'd do it in a heartbeat just so A and her family can deal with things as they are, without added stress. All I can do is hope the message goes ignored or that facebook has issues and the message never goes through.
3CatsN1Dog, I am afraid it will cause A to be angry at her mother, which would be awful considering she may not have much time left. That's where R thinks the timing is perfect and that it will give A a chance to talk to her mom about it before she passes. "imagine if she found out years later and didn't have the chance to ask her mother about it".
My reasoning with her failed because I am not adopted and have no personal experience. Apparently, common sense plays no role in all this. If I had some way to make her see its wrong, I'd do it in a heartbeat just so A and her family can deal with things as they are, without added stress. All I can do is hope the message goes ignored or that facebook has issues and the message never goes through.