Hi all!!
I'm not usually one to ask for vibes, but I'm trying to learn to be better about asking for support when I need it.
As you can see in my siggy, I'm now five months pregnant. The father and I are still on speaking terms, but there is no intention of co-habitating or marriage any time soon. I am still in college, and will stay so for as long as I can afford or until i get my degree, whichever comes first. Unfortunately, I'm currently looking for work, and my bank account is running low for the moment (until after the 1st of the year, at least) So I'm considering getting a roommate to share this huge house with me and the kritters.
My counselor suggested another client of hers who is looking for a place to get out of a (verbally and recently minor physically) abusive relationship. Now, I don't think my counselor would have suggested this person if she didn't think we'd be a good fit, considering she knows both of us and our situations very well. But I'm still cautious. I have another person to consider now.
I have spoken with this woman on the phone, and she sounds very nice. She has one elderly (declawed) cat who would be coming with her if she moves in, and she is an animal lover. She and a friend are coming to my house tomorrow to meet me and have a look around. If all goes well, she could be here by the 9th. I have enjoyed having my space, but I'm in a situation now where I need to get some positive cashflow going. Could you all just spare some vibes and prayers that I'm doing the right thing for me and my baby, and that it will benefit us all in the end??
I'm not usually one to ask for vibes, but I'm trying to learn to be better about asking for support when I need it.
As you can see in my siggy, I'm now five months pregnant. The father and I are still on speaking terms, but there is no intention of co-habitating or marriage any time soon. I am still in college, and will stay so for as long as I can afford or until i get my degree, whichever comes first. Unfortunately, I'm currently looking for work, and my bank account is running low for the moment (until after the 1st of the year, at least) So I'm considering getting a roommate to share this huge house with me and the kritters.
My counselor suggested another client of hers who is looking for a place to get out of a (verbally and recently minor physically) abusive relationship. Now, I don't think my counselor would have suggested this person if she didn't think we'd be a good fit, considering she knows both of us and our situations very well. But I'm still cautious. I have another person to consider now.
I have spoken with this woman on the phone, and she sounds very nice. She has one elderly (declawed) cat who would be coming with her if she moves in, and she is an animal lover. She and a friend are coming to my house tomorrow to meet me and have a look around. If all goes well, she could be here by the 9th. I have enjoyed having my space, but I'm in a situation now where I need to get some positive cashflow going. Could you all just spare some vibes and prayers that I'm doing the right thing for me and my baby, and that it will benefit us all in the end??