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So we have Lion, approximately 8 years old (give or take a couple of years)…who likes other cats. He was the newcomer a couple of years ago. Our resident cat at the time was not happy with him, but within 3 months, could tolerate him without supervision. That resident cat passed away almost a year ago, and we had been thinking about finding him a companion. Long story short…just before the weather got too cold this fall, we got permission from our neighbors to take in their less than a year old mother (we’ve named her Harri) with her kitten (we named him Venom), about 12 weeks. All of the cats like us humans, and will play, and seek out our laps. We kept them separated, and after 2 weeks, got Harri spayed. Kept them apart another 2 weeks… all the while switching their areas so they could smell each other. Then we started introducing them. Lion is eager to meet them…he and Venom get along just fine. Harri only wants to attack Lion. We always wait a couple of weeks between tries, and wait until after they’ve been fed. We get Harri playing and then let Lion approach as he’s ready. No fail, as soon as she detects Lion, she’s in attack mode. She hasn’t hurt him…she just chases until he runs for cover. we could try the feeding on opposite sides of the door thing, but we can’t give treats to Lion (that we know of) because he’s on a prescription diet to prevent bladder stones, My question is, could this be because she’s a protective mom? Even though the 2 boys get along fine…is she protective of food? The neighbors weren’t feeding them, and she was real thin when we took them in…kitten has always been plump and well fed. He still sometimes suckles. If need be, we have a good home waiting for him. Venom does get in front of Harri even when we feed them both at the same time, he keeps thinking the other bowl is better, shoving her out, and then she goes to the empty one..,and put it on repreat. Same if we give them both toys…mom’s is always better, and she defers to him. When he’s not with her, she loves playing uninterrupted. Any ideas?
thanks!
thanks!