Ok sobues I know she still is new to my house but I have two small ( one major irritating) problems. One she runs from us and I have been patient and hadled meal times and going to see what's the matter whe n she yowels. How do I get her to trust me and my husband more? The last owner said she has made more leaps and bounds in 3 days that took her months but I'm so used to my other cat it just buggs me that she doesn't want the attention that our other cat does. The other problem is she yowels at night until she has her new sister ( my 3-4 year old cat in her sights and gets her sniffs. Is this cause she is not spayed( which is going to be scheduled after we get our taxes back) or could that be caused by her being in a new place and it will go away over time?