there is a cat that i think is a stray as it is very shy. its been hanging out here for about a month on and off but will never let you get close to it. today i decieded im going to try to tame it. there is a bunch of stray's around so that's why i think its a stray so i'm going to only feed it at certain times and then sit there while he eats. so i went and got it some wet food till i can get some dry cat food here in a couple days. but when i opened the can and put it on the lid the cat came quick but wouldn't come any closer than 5 feet so i backed away from it. the cat ate and drank then i picked up the food bowl and left the water bowl. the cat is brown stripped with a big black strip down the middle and white paws with a white chin i dont know if his whole underside is white or not. i dont know if its a boy or girl. i need a name for it. i think it might be a boy but its just a hunch. and what should i do for him to get used to me and be able to get petted? so any info and name suggestions will be great. thank you