I want to know if anyone else has got or had a cat that has behaved in this way.
I've always thought Mildred is odd, right from when I had her. As the years have gone on, I have convinced myself she's got some sort of learning disability. I tried googling it but didn't find much.
When I had her, at 10 weeks old, she went straight behind the settee and stayed there for nearly 3 weeks. I had to put everything behind there with her because I couldn't even tempt her out with food or treats. I moved the settee out a couple of centimetres a day until she was exposed. I know lots of cats hide but I thought it was quite an effort for her to stay there for so long.
As a kitten, she never climbed anything, never got on the bed or the worktop or windowsill. When I had my other cat, Sedrick, she started to copy him a bit. She gets on the bed now. She didn't like him to start with either...tried to kill him actually but she tolerates him now. She's funny though...if he walks by her she will give him a slap round the face. Luckily he takes no notice at all. They don't fight. She's never fought in her life.
She never made a noise either as a kitten...never meowed, never purred. The only noise she ever made was a hiss. She has meowed only a couple of times in her life.
She wouldn't let me touch her at all. Obviously, I need to be able to touch her to be able to check she is ok and she's long haired so I need to tend to her fur if needed. It took me 7 years of persistence, spending hours with her each day to get her to the point she's at now. She lets me stroke her now, in fact she seems to like it. It's rare that she hisses now too but she still bites for no apparent reason.
She has never been on my lap...not once.
She doesn't play. At all. Well, unless there's a moth. Everything else she just ignores.
It's so hard to describe what I mean about her behaviour. It's lots of little things she does. The biggest one is that every time she comes out of the bedroom (the bedroom is her main domain), she walks round investigating the place like she's never ever seen it before. She looks bewildered, goes round sniffing everything, walking really slowly. It's bizarre to watch.
She's very easily startled but seems to have relaxed so much compared to what she was like. I used to look at her sometimes and she'd just look petrified. I didn't stare or anything. She is a lot better than she was. I just can't believe how long it has taken and how much I have to do to make sure she stays relaxed. I'm the only person that can touch her.
It's not that she's not happy. I think she is happy...well, I hope so anyway. It's something else.
She is nothing like any cat I have had before or any cat I have ever met. It's so hard to describe - I'm not sure I've done it justice.
I've always thought Mildred is odd, right from when I had her. As the years have gone on, I have convinced myself she's got some sort of learning disability. I tried googling it but didn't find much.
When I had her, at 10 weeks old, she went straight behind the settee and stayed there for nearly 3 weeks. I had to put everything behind there with her because I couldn't even tempt her out with food or treats. I moved the settee out a couple of centimetres a day until she was exposed. I know lots of cats hide but I thought it was quite an effort for her to stay there for so long.
As a kitten, she never climbed anything, never got on the bed or the worktop or windowsill. When I had my other cat, Sedrick, she started to copy him a bit. She gets on the bed now. She didn't like him to start with either...tried to kill him actually but she tolerates him now. She's funny though...if he walks by her she will give him a slap round the face. Luckily he takes no notice at all. They don't fight. She's never fought in her life.
She never made a noise either as a kitten...never meowed, never purred. The only noise she ever made was a hiss. She has meowed only a couple of times in her life.
She wouldn't let me touch her at all. Obviously, I need to be able to touch her to be able to check she is ok and she's long haired so I need to tend to her fur if needed. It took me 7 years of persistence, spending hours with her each day to get her to the point she's at now. She lets me stroke her now, in fact she seems to like it. It's rare that she hisses now too but she still bites for no apparent reason.
She has never been on my lap...not once.
She doesn't play. At all. Well, unless there's a moth. Everything else she just ignores.
It's so hard to describe what I mean about her behaviour. It's lots of little things she does. The biggest one is that every time she comes out of the bedroom (the bedroom is her main domain), she walks round investigating the place like she's never ever seen it before. She looks bewildered, goes round sniffing everything, walking really slowly. It's bizarre to watch.
She's very easily startled but seems to have relaxed so much compared to what she was like. I used to look at her sometimes and she'd just look petrified. I didn't stare or anything. She is a lot better than she was. I just can't believe how long it has taken and how much I have to do to make sure she stays relaxed. I'm the only person that can touch her.
It's not that she's not happy. I think she is happy...well, I hope so anyway. It's something else.
She is nothing like any cat I have had before or any cat I have ever met. It's so hard to describe - I'm not sure I've done it justice.