Jericho is weird about strangers. Especially women. We know this, and have stopped having people over because of it.
Saturday my boyfriends mom came to pick him up to go to a family wedding. She rang the doorbell, matt opened the door and jericho (hissing and growling) charged her (she was still in the apartment hallway, where he is TERRIFIED of) and latched onto her thigh. We got him off and she went to the bathroom and came out with 3 very large, very bloody gashes on her leg from his claws.
This is not the first time this has happened but is by far the worst incident we've had. I bought Starting from Scratch by Pam Johnson-Bennett as suggested on here and Ive read almost all of it in a day but not a bunch of it really pertains to jericho. I learned how to play with him better and how to change his environment to help. But the real problem is the aggression, and most of that chapter is about cat on cat aggression. The only thing thats left is the vet or a behaviorist to help because I just think he has been through too much in a short period of time to get the help we need for a book or websites.
This issue has been bothering me a bunch since saturday. I feel guilty for him being like this, like I didnt raise him right, or address it correctly when I should have. Its my fault he went through so many changes, its my fault hes afraid of strangers now, and i hate knowing he doesnt even feel safe enough in his own home. He has nothing to do with us for more than 3 seconds at a time (as far as physical contact), but i could play with him for hours as long as i do not touch him. He will greet me and nudge my hand and scent it (like he wants to be petted) but the second I touch HIM I'm getting bit.
But what really kills me is the thought that if I cant figure out how to get him over this aggression and be more social and calm and it just gets worse that we will have to give him away. I would exhaust everything before doing that but, what if nothing works? And then what if we have a kid and he is aggressive towards it? I'm just feeling helpless at this point in the game and have no clue where to turn anymore. Ive tried to find animal behavorists in st. louis but have come up blank. I dont know if I'm even looking in the right place. I'm rambling now..but any help or suggestions (yet again) would be wonderful.
Saturday my boyfriends mom came to pick him up to go to a family wedding. She rang the doorbell, matt opened the door and jericho (hissing and growling) charged her (she was still in the apartment hallway, where he is TERRIFIED of) and latched onto her thigh. We got him off and she went to the bathroom and came out with 3 very large, very bloody gashes on her leg from his claws.
This is not the first time this has happened but is by far the worst incident we've had. I bought Starting from Scratch by Pam Johnson-Bennett as suggested on here and Ive read almost all of it in a day but not a bunch of it really pertains to jericho. I learned how to play with him better and how to change his environment to help. But the real problem is the aggression, and most of that chapter is about cat on cat aggression. The only thing thats left is the vet or a behaviorist to help because I just think he has been through too much in a short period of time to get the help we need for a book or websites.
This issue has been bothering me a bunch since saturday. I feel guilty for him being like this, like I didnt raise him right, or address it correctly when I should have. Its my fault he went through so many changes, its my fault hes afraid of strangers now, and i hate knowing he doesnt even feel safe enough in his own home. He has nothing to do with us for more than 3 seconds at a time (as far as physical contact), but i could play with him for hours as long as i do not touch him. He will greet me and nudge my hand and scent it (like he wants to be petted) but the second I touch HIM I'm getting bit.
But what really kills me is the thought that if I cant figure out how to get him over this aggression and be more social and calm and it just gets worse that we will have to give him away. I would exhaust everything before doing that but, what if nothing works? And then what if we have a kid and he is aggressive towards it? I'm just feeling helpless at this point in the game and have no clue where to turn anymore. Ive tried to find animal behavorists in st. louis but have come up blank. I dont know if I'm even looking in the right place. I'm rambling now..but any help or suggestions (yet again) would be wonderful.