So I have a 6 month old kitten. MY girlfriend and I live with my girlfriends sister who has about a 13-14 month old cat.
Her cat is VERY skittish and spooks easily. It hates being pet and is uninterested with toys and barely likes play. So far we've only let monitored sessions take place and the kitten stays in our bedroom but he's getting to where I want to let him run around and be out of our room. For a short while the cats are fine together, the resident cat(older skittish one) even licks our kitten a little bit) then they start running around and jumping on each other. There's been no hissing just some tackling and swatting, although most if it seems playful the tackling worries me, because then they just chase each other and my cat gets very defensive.
The resident cat also stalks the kitten a lot. The kitten will be playing or lounging and he's just there stalking. I've tried tossing pillows, clapping, lots of things but the resident cat just speeds up his assault after a short retreat and then comes back. My other concern is that when they chase, the kitten starts panting after a short while, and I think they'd be fine if they can run it out, but I don't want him to push it. I brought the panting up to the vet and they said his breathing and heart are fine, it's probably just excitement/an odd trait, right after the activity he stops and it doesn't continue after rest.
Does anyone have any tips for how I can handle this? I introduced them slowly behind a door and followed steps, should I just let them wrestle around and not worry about it until I hear a yelp? The wrestling is hard to tell because they kind of lock up but no hisses or anything as I said.
Her cat is VERY skittish and spooks easily. It hates being pet and is uninterested with toys and barely likes play. So far we've only let monitored sessions take place and the kitten stays in our bedroom but he's getting to where I want to let him run around and be out of our room. For a short while the cats are fine together, the resident cat(older skittish one) even licks our kitten a little bit) then they start running around and jumping on each other. There's been no hissing just some tackling and swatting, although most if it seems playful the tackling worries me, because then they just chase each other and my cat gets very defensive.
The resident cat also stalks the kitten a lot. The kitten will be playing or lounging and he's just there stalking. I've tried tossing pillows, clapping, lots of things but the resident cat just speeds up his assault after a short retreat and then comes back. My other concern is that when they chase, the kitten starts panting after a short while, and I think they'd be fine if they can run it out, but I don't want him to push it. I brought the panting up to the vet and they said his breathing and heart are fine, it's probably just excitement/an odd trait, right after the activity he stops and it doesn't continue after rest.
Does anyone have any tips for how I can handle this? I introduced them slowly behind a door and followed steps, should I just let them wrestle around and not worry about it until I hear a yelp? The wrestling is hard to tell because they kind of lock up but no hisses or anything as I said.