Whats your opinion on this?
I am online as you notice.. haha!
Since i moved to this area of Frankfurt, i made friends with this kid who lives down the road (okay he really isnt a kid but he is 18)
THe other day he came over to try and fix my computer, and he told me he has to bring some other stuff over to get it fixed, I told him to come the next night and that he didnt need to call because i would be home.
The next evening i waited untill 11:30 pm and he didnt come around so i just thought well i wont call him. But instead at 00:00 he sends me a text with the word "LOL" So the next day i called him and asked him why he didnt come around, and he said... well i was past your house but all the lights were out. Here i am thinking WELL "HELLO WHATS THE DOOR BELL FOR?"
So he came around that evening and fixed my computer and then left, he doesnt talk much, and i hate doing all the talking, i ended up just watching tv and cleaning up as if he wasnt there.
Last night he asked if he could come around to drink some prosecco to celebrate, and i declined because i had already drunk too much at home..
So to the point, tonight he asks me about what i think of him, but i wasnt sure which way he meant it, so i kind of ignored it, and switched it around so he would tell me what he thinks of me, so now because i havent replied, he writes me an sms stating that he gives up and he will pick up the rest of his things as soon as he needs it.
Now he just Ruined my Christmas day by making me angry, because i had told him that i dont want a relationship, and if he was really that interested in me he wouldnt act so weird about it.
So what do i do now?
Ditch him as a friend? or how the heck am i supposed to stay friends with someone who is so shy and gets angry at me for stupid things?
I am online as you notice.. haha!
Since i moved to this area of Frankfurt, i made friends with this kid who lives down the road (okay he really isnt a kid but he is 18)
THe other day he came over to try and fix my computer, and he told me he has to bring some other stuff over to get it fixed, I told him to come the next night and that he didnt need to call because i would be home.
The next evening i waited untill 11:30 pm and he didnt come around so i just thought well i wont call him. But instead at 00:00 he sends me a text with the word "LOL" So the next day i called him and asked him why he didnt come around, and he said... well i was past your house but all the lights were out. Here i am thinking WELL "HELLO WHATS THE DOOR BELL FOR?"
So he came around that evening and fixed my computer and then left, he doesnt talk much, and i hate doing all the talking, i ended up just watching tv and cleaning up as if he wasnt there.
Last night he asked if he could come around to drink some prosecco to celebrate, and i declined because i had already drunk too much at home..
So to the point, tonight he asks me about what i think of him, but i wasnt sure which way he meant it, so i kind of ignored it, and switched it around so he would tell me what he thinks of me, so now because i havent replied, he writes me an sms stating that he gives up and he will pick up the rest of his things as soon as he needs it.
Now he just Ruined my Christmas day by making me angry, because i had told him that i dont want a relationship, and if he was really that interested in me he wouldnt act so weird about it.
So what do i do now?
Ditch him as a friend? or how the heck am i supposed to stay friends with someone who is so shy and gets angry at me for stupid things?