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This is going to be long and I apologize in advance but I feel I'll be helped best if I provide the most information possible. My room mate works for a property management company. In April, he was at an apartment that had recently been evicted only to discover that the tenants left behind a female cat. She was very friendly and had been alone in the apartment for at least 10 days. I'm a cat person, through and through and since he knew this, he called and asked if I'd like him to bring her home. This was after a neighbor informed him that she had personally took the previous tenants to have her spayed. Also it's worth mentioning that we do have a very friendly, docile, cat loving, big baby, pit bull.
He brought her home and right away she was very attached to me. Rubbing all over me. We allowed her to explore the house and tried to slowly introduce her to the dog. Although she warmed up to us very quickly, she did not and will not warm up to him. And he is terrified of her. She knows by now that he will not bother her or even come near her. He hides his face whenever she comes around and all but breaks his neck to avoid looking at her. That's the smallest issue for now though.
About two weeks after having her, and her not being out of our house at any point, I noticed that she was very clearly displaying signs of being pregnant. She was a very small, dainty cat who's belly was suddenly swollen and nipples were poking out. So the neighbor obviously misled us and when he got her, she was already pregnant, just not obviously yet (for those of you who might feel the need to preach about spaying, I already have an appointment scheduled for her, as I'm totally against bringing kittens into this world unless you're a breeder of purebreds) Every once in awhile, when she was obviously begging for attention and we'd pet her, she'd suddenly bite but then go right back to wanting to be petted. Also, she would sometimes just randomly run at and quickly attack the dog when he was clearly already cowering in fear of her very presence. I kind of thought it must just be a hormonal/maternal thing and at least tried to work on what I thought was petting aggression or "love bites" that she didn't understand were hurting because of some learned behavior, by positive reinforcement with treats or walking away when she'd bite.
So, she goes into labor and very clearly wanted me right by her side. I could not leave her or even get up to walk without her coming out of her birthing box and following me meowing at me. All goes well. She has 4 kittens. She's got her very own bedroom to have them in with everything in there that she needs and the door opened so that she doesn't feel trapped. I kind of gave her space for maybe a little bit too long because once I started visiting more for short periods of time, if she thought I was walking away from her she'd bite the top of my foot VERY hard then continue circling around and rubbing my legs. So I figured I needed to be giving her more attention and play with her more, which I started doing. But now it's to the point that whenever she's around she starts circling and rubbing my legs and I have to stand completely still and because if I take a step, she bites the top of my feet. If I sit down and pet her she's very nice and friendly but when I get up I have to distract her with treats or she'll bite my feet and block me.
This morning has been especially trying. She was acting that way this morning so I've been in my room and she keeps coming in and meowing at me and if I get up she runs after me and bites my feet and will only get distracted when I give her treats. I'm starting to fear her and I hate that so much. She lets me near the kittens and trusts me with them and all of that but I don't get it? She acts like she starved for attention but then gets aggressive and like has a stand off with me. She even jumped on my bed with the dog next to me today to get petted then got down but if she's anywhere and hears his bell, she crouches down and waits for him to walk by to attack him which he does in total fear and only with a ton of coaxing from me and his daddy. And this is a dog that loves kitties but he's afraid of her. I mean it's getting to the point where I'm considering finding her another home and keeping one of her kittens because I can at least train one of them and they'll be more likely to get along with the dog. I mean the poor guy is terrified and does not big her at all. I mean literally hides his face in the nearest chair or human when she comes around. This is his house. And he's so scared. I love her and she can be the sweetest thing ever but she's always reining terror on him no matter what and I don't know if the aggression is because she feels couped up with the kitties and I'm not with her enough or what but I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of her sometimes. She doesn't do the biting or blocking thing to my room mate but he's not the one that has a bond with her. She lets him pet her and will sit on his lap but could care less when he walks away. I just don't know what to do and she's been this worst today. It's like a bi-polar switch where she's begging for attention and I played with her, I gave her treats, I pet her, I'm talking to her, I'm not closing myself or her in anywhere but I'm afraid to get up and walk and I've been sitting on this bed for hours now. My room mate just came home and sat on a chair across from me, she jumped up on his lap, let him let her, then got down. But she keeps meowing and just demanding attention but if I get up to give it to her I'm stuck because if I try to walk away I get attacked or blocked. Obviously this is way past being a maternal thing. Also, I'm pretty certain she's no older than 2. I don't know if that helps. At first I thought maybe she was calling to her kittens to come in here because they are running around now but it seems to be completely directed at me. Help please!!!
He brought her home and right away she was very attached to me. Rubbing all over me. We allowed her to explore the house and tried to slowly introduce her to the dog. Although she warmed up to us very quickly, she did not and will not warm up to him. And he is terrified of her. She knows by now that he will not bother her or even come near her. He hides his face whenever she comes around and all but breaks his neck to avoid looking at her. That's the smallest issue for now though.
About two weeks after having her, and her not being out of our house at any point, I noticed that she was very clearly displaying signs of being pregnant. She was a very small, dainty cat who's belly was suddenly swollen and nipples were poking out. So the neighbor obviously misled us and when he got her, she was already pregnant, just not obviously yet (for those of you who might feel the need to preach about spaying, I already have an appointment scheduled for her, as I'm totally against bringing kittens into this world unless you're a breeder of purebreds) Every once in awhile, when she was obviously begging for attention and we'd pet her, she'd suddenly bite but then go right back to wanting to be petted. Also, she would sometimes just randomly run at and quickly attack the dog when he was clearly already cowering in fear of her very presence. I kind of thought it must just be a hormonal/maternal thing and at least tried to work on what I thought was petting aggression or "love bites" that she didn't understand were hurting because of some learned behavior, by positive reinforcement with treats or walking away when she'd bite.
So, she goes into labor and very clearly wanted me right by her side. I could not leave her or even get up to walk without her coming out of her birthing box and following me meowing at me. All goes well. She has 4 kittens. She's got her very own bedroom to have them in with everything in there that she needs and the door opened so that she doesn't feel trapped. I kind of gave her space for maybe a little bit too long because once I started visiting more for short periods of time, if she thought I was walking away from her she'd bite the top of my foot VERY hard then continue circling around and rubbing my legs. So I figured I needed to be giving her more attention and play with her more, which I started doing. But now it's to the point that whenever she's around she starts circling and rubbing my legs and I have to stand completely still and because if I take a step, she bites the top of my feet. If I sit down and pet her she's very nice and friendly but when I get up I have to distract her with treats or she'll bite my feet and block me.
This morning has been especially trying. She was acting that way this morning so I've been in my room and she keeps coming in and meowing at me and if I get up she runs after me and bites my feet and will only get distracted when I give her treats. I'm starting to fear her and I hate that so much. She lets me near the kittens and trusts me with them and all of that but I don't get it? She acts like she starved for attention but then gets aggressive and like has a stand off with me. She even jumped on my bed with the dog next to me today to get petted then got down but if she's anywhere and hears his bell, she crouches down and waits for him to walk by to attack him which he does in total fear and only with a ton of coaxing from me and his daddy. And this is a dog that loves kitties but he's afraid of her. I mean it's getting to the point where I'm considering finding her another home and keeping one of her kittens because I can at least train one of them and they'll be more likely to get along with the dog. I mean the poor guy is terrified and does not big her at all. I mean literally hides his face in the nearest chair or human when she comes around. This is his house. And he's so scared. I love her and she can be the sweetest thing ever but she's always reining terror on him no matter what and I don't know if the aggression is because she feels couped up with the kitties and I'm not with her enough or what but I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of her sometimes. She doesn't do the biting or blocking thing to my room mate but he's not the one that has a bond with her. She lets him pet her and will sit on his lap but could care less when he walks away. I just don't know what to do and she's been this worst today. It's like a bi-polar switch where she's begging for attention and I played with her, I gave her treats, I pet her, I'm talking to her, I'm not closing myself or her in anywhere but I'm afraid to get up and walk and I've been sitting on this bed for hours now. My room mate just came home and sat on a chair across from me, she jumped up on his lap, let him let her, then got down. But she keeps meowing and just demanding attention but if I get up to give it to her I'm stuck because if I try to walk away I get attacked or blocked. Obviously this is way past being a maternal thing. Also, I'm pretty certain she's no older than 2. I don't know if that helps. At first I thought maybe she was calling to her kittens to come in here because they are running around now but it seems to be completely directed at me. Help please!!!