Judith, as you know I went through a very similar situation. I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
RIP Gorby
RIP Gorby
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sick cat Problem......
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Thank you booktigger, libby, yosemite.
I do feel I made the right decision.. I just keep pictureing him on the table looking at me.. I can't get over how quick it was.. I can't get that picture out of my head. And, I keep looking in the bedroom everytime I pass by the room he slept in. Like he is going to be there.
It so hard to think of him not here aqnymore... I know it will get better...
Thank you all so much for your kind words..
Judith
I do feel I made the right decision.. I just keep pictureing him on the table looking at me.. I can't get over how quick it was.. I can't get that picture out of my head. And, I keep looking in the bedroom everytime I pass by the room he slept in. Like he is going to be there.
It so hard to think of him not here aqnymore... I know it will get better...
Thank you all so much for your kind words..
Judith
Judith, when you feel up to it, you should write a tribute to Gorby in the crossing the bridge forum.
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Thanks Abbysmom...Originally Posted by AbbysMom
Judith, as you know I went through a very similar situation. I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
RIP Gorby
I know you had a similiar situation... It was soooooooo hard to finally make that decision.. I kept thinking if he looked sicker or acted sicker it would have been easier but that would have been selfish.
I just kept thinking maybe he had another month or two.. But then I would not want him living like that for another month or two.
Thanks for all your support.
Hi Judith,
I read this entire thread knowing exactly what you went through because today at 4 I am taking my girl age 16 to be euthanized. I can't bear to do it, but her quality of life is not good, and I have to stop trying to convince myself that because she drinks some tuna water, she is getting better. I cannot bear to let her waste away the way I did with my other old cat 2 years ago. She was like a limp doll by the time I took her. Mozel is not that far gone, but I will not do that to her.
My thoughts a payers to you and Gordy.
I read this entire thread knowing exactly what you went through because today at 4 I am taking my girl age 16 to be euthanized. I can't bear to do it, but her quality of life is not good, and I have to stop trying to convince myself that because she drinks some tuna water, she is getting better. I cannot bear to let her waste away the way I did with my other old cat 2 years ago. She was like a limp doll by the time I took her. Mozel is not that far gone, but I will not do that to her.
My thoughts a payers to you and Gordy.
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Oh gailvscats!
My heart is breaking for you....Their is nothing that anyone can say to make you feel better....I had so much wonderful advice from so many people and it still is a heart breaking decision to make...Looking back, I wish I had done it a week sooner...It IS the right choice to take her now.
I will be thinking about you & Mozel today...
