First off, I dont know if this is in the right section, if it isnt, sorry.
Second, I know the title sounds horrible, but I can explain.
I have had my first cat for 15 months. Hes not my actual first cat, but the first cat I've had since I've been on my own, which has been 7 years now (I'm 25). I love him to death and every day when I come home from work, hes sitting on the couch arm waiting there to greet me.
I got a second cat, for my first to be buds with. The 2nd is a kitten, but they have grown to be friends.
Now the reason I say I'm sick of the 2nd cat, is because every day when I come home from work, I look at him and ask him what he destroyed today. I do this because he constantly pees or poops somewhere. Even though I've seen him use the litter box. He tears up my furniture, even though I have a scratching post. He does bother my older cat sometimes, but the older one will eventually get fed up with and whoop his ass in a play fight.
I'm just sick of having a smelly apartment. If I could get him to use the litter box every time it wouldn't be a big deal.
I know most of you are going to say hes doing this because hes a kitten. But my first didnt do this, and I know every cat is different. But a part of me thinks he may not be the type of cat I need or want.
There are a couple of nice things about him. He is very affectionate. Every night, after chasing my older cat and being chase by him, which btw keeps me up. VERY aggravating. Anyways, after doing the Indy 500 in my house, he will crall up in bed with me and purr his butt off. Unfortunately he insists on doing this by my face, with his rear facing me. I'll move him and he will come right back and do the same or start pawing me and dig his claws into my back. Again, which is very aggravating.
Advice for the problems would help. Though typing this out did help me rant a little I suppose.
Second, I know the title sounds horrible, but I can explain.
I have had my first cat for 15 months. Hes not my actual first cat, but the first cat I've had since I've been on my own, which has been 7 years now (I'm 25). I love him to death and every day when I come home from work, hes sitting on the couch arm waiting there to greet me.
I got a second cat, for my first to be buds with. The 2nd is a kitten, but they have grown to be friends.
Now the reason I say I'm sick of the 2nd cat, is because every day when I come home from work, I look at him and ask him what he destroyed today. I do this because he constantly pees or poops somewhere. Even though I've seen him use the litter box. He tears up my furniture, even though I have a scratching post. He does bother my older cat sometimes, but the older one will eventually get fed up with and whoop his ass in a play fight.
I'm just sick of having a smelly apartment. If I could get him to use the litter box every time it wouldn't be a big deal.
I know most of you are going to say hes doing this because hes a kitten. But my first didnt do this, and I know every cat is different. But a part of me thinks he may not be the type of cat I need or want.
There are a couple of nice things about him. He is very affectionate. Every night, after chasing my older cat and being chase by him, which btw keeps me up. VERY aggravating. Anyways, after doing the Indy 500 in my house, he will crall up in bed with me and purr his butt off. Unfortunately he insists on doing this by my face, with his rear facing me. I'll move him and he will come right back and do the same or start pawing me and dig his claws into my back. Again, which is very aggravating.
Advice for the problems would help. Though typing this out did help me rant a little I suppose.