I recently adopted a cat. The human society wasn't sure whether she was born feral or abandoned young, referring to her as very shy or "semi-feral". I know this will take a lot of time and I'm willing to put in the work however I was hoping for advice. This is the first cat I've had that wasn't in a loving home from kittenhood so I may be a bit out of my depth.
The foster described her as a sweet cuddlebug but shy. The cat was with the foster for several years apparently. She has been with me for about six weeks. She has been in my home office (there was nowhere smaller that would have worked), I set it up with beds, scratching options, toys, litter box, feliway diffuser etc and visited her every hour or so for 10-20min. I would always give her a treat when I visited and she was happily taking them from me. Over the first two weeks or so she seemed to be adjusting slowly but steadily.
But then one day with no warning she smacked and scratched my hand when I offered the treat. Since then it's been an uphill battle and it feels like no matter how hard I try she continues to think the worst. She spends all her time hiding, or dashing between hiding spots. She has a clean bill of health, uses the litter box with no issues and eats normally. There are no other pets or kids or anything else to disturb her, so I can't figure out why we seem to be moving backwards.
How much time should I be spending around her? I was trying to increase the amount of time I spend in the room by working half days in there but I'm worried I am stressing her out by being there.
Should I try to make the hiding places off limits?
I've been giving her some wet food twice a day and there is a bowl of dry food as well that she can have whenever. Should I take the dry food away and only feed her on a schedule?
The foster described her as a sweet cuddlebug but shy. The cat was with the foster for several years apparently. She has been with me for about six weeks. She has been in my home office (there was nowhere smaller that would have worked), I set it up with beds, scratching options, toys, litter box, feliway diffuser etc and visited her every hour or so for 10-20min. I would always give her a treat when I visited and she was happily taking them from me. Over the first two weeks or so she seemed to be adjusting slowly but steadily.
But then one day with no warning she smacked and scratched my hand when I offered the treat. Since then it's been an uphill battle and it feels like no matter how hard I try she continues to think the worst. She spends all her time hiding, or dashing between hiding spots. She has a clean bill of health, uses the litter box with no issues and eats normally. There are no other pets or kids or anything else to disturb her, so I can't figure out why we seem to be moving backwards.
How much time should I be spending around her? I was trying to increase the amount of time I spend in the room by working half days in there but I'm worried I am stressing her out by being there.
Should I try to make the hiding places off limits?
I've been giving her some wet food twice a day and there is a bowl of dry food as well that she can have whenever. Should I take the dry food away and only feed her on a schedule?