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Hi everyone! This is my first post and I'd love to get some honest opinions. I would like to adopt a cat, but my husband does not.
We've had a few cats in the past, before children. He started out not minding cats, but grew to not like them and feels that they're selfish, demanding, and not truly domesticated and shouldn't be kept indoors. He hates how they scratch furniture, jump on tables and countertops, shed, meow for food, etc. He can't seem to see any positives of owning a cat.
I miss having a cat. I miss having a cuddly, purring friend. I work from home and I would love the company of a feline friend. Our kids would too.
I found a cat who acts more like a dog and doesn't seem to display the behaviors that he has issues with. My husband seems somewhat willing to allow me to meet it and adopt it if I like it, but only for my sake and to make me happy. He said he just won't interact with it and I and the kids will be in charge of taking care of it and correcting any behavior issues. But if it scratches the kids or furniture within the first couple of weeks, he wants it gone.
As much as I'd love a cat, especially this amazing one, how can I bring a cat into our home when my husband only wants it for me? I feel that this isn't fair to the cat, or my husband. And I'll just need to get it into my head that I'll never own a cat again. Maybe I should volunteer somewhere to get a little cat time. I suppose there is a small chance that this cat could turn my cat hating husband into a cat lover, but, is it worth the risk?
Thank you!!
We've had a few cats in the past, before children. He started out not minding cats, but grew to not like them and feels that they're selfish, demanding, and not truly domesticated and shouldn't be kept indoors. He hates how they scratch furniture, jump on tables and countertops, shed, meow for food, etc. He can't seem to see any positives of owning a cat.
I miss having a cat. I miss having a cuddly, purring friend. I work from home and I would love the company of a feline friend. Our kids would too.
I found a cat who acts more like a dog and doesn't seem to display the behaviors that he has issues with. My husband seems somewhat willing to allow me to meet it and adopt it if I like it, but only for my sake and to make me happy. He said he just won't interact with it and I and the kids will be in charge of taking care of it and correcting any behavior issues. But if it scratches the kids or furniture within the first couple of weeks, he wants it gone.
As much as I'd love a cat, especially this amazing one, how can I bring a cat into our home when my husband only wants it for me? I feel that this isn't fair to the cat, or my husband. And I'll just need to get it into my head that I'll never own a cat again. Maybe I should volunteer somewhere to get a little cat time. I suppose there is a small chance that this cat could turn my cat hating husband into a cat lover, but, is it worth the risk?
Thank you!!