Should I tell her?

[rockcat]

I'd tell her too, so she would know the kitty is getting the proper care. I'd also tell her to get her bf declawed.

 

[bob'smom]

I told her. She's happy that he's getting care and that he's happy. I didn't discuss cost or follow up procedures.

 

[lionessrampant]

Personally, I would have gotten rid of the boyfriend, not the cat.

My man willingly scoops litter boxes and cleans up the occassional hairball and lets my kitten sleep on his head, in addition to just generally loving my babies (or, as he calls them, our fuzzy children). I wouldn't want anything less in a guy and neither should your friend!!