The day after aki my 2 and half year old cat died she offered me her senior cat. I was offended in multiple ways and shocked as you just dont do that to a cat of that age. Both her and my dad keep bringing it up, now my dad claims he is going take her as my sister's dogs are just too rough with her even though they lived together for over two years now and suddenly now this topic keeps getting brought up.
My stepmother does not like cats, they will be gone for many ten day stretches up north and their last cat acted out being left alone that much and she had it put down.
While I am still grieving and unsure if I should even have a cat again I kinda feel if she is that serious I maybe the best option for this cat. What do you guys think? I just keep hoping my sister would find a way to give her senior cat the proper final years with the only home she knows. I also feel like I have lost confidence myself taking care of a cat. Unless you had a cat with health issues that never resolve their whole life, its hard to explain how guilty you feel that you can never fix it no matter how much money or time you sink into it and I had such a tight bond with my little buddy I almost feel like I will compare every cat I see to him for the rest of my days.
My stepmother does not like cats, they will be gone for many ten day stretches up north and their last cat acted out being left alone that much and she had it put down.
While I am still grieving and unsure if I should even have a cat again I kinda feel if she is that serious I maybe the best option for this cat. What do you guys think? I just keep hoping my sister would find a way to give her senior cat the proper final years with the only home she knows. I also feel like I have lost confidence myself taking care of a cat. Unless you had a cat with health issues that never resolve their whole life, its hard to explain how guilty you feel that you can never fix it no matter how much money or time you sink into it and I had such a tight bond with my little buddy I almost feel like I will compare every cat I see to him for the rest of my days.