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My mom passed 6 months ago from pancreatic cancer. ive put most of her things in containers, i tossed out the drawers, as i didnt need them.
but for some reason im finding it hard to let go of her bed. just the thought of doing this makes me break down. theres no use for it, its just sitting in the living room reminding everyone of my mom being there in pain her last days. i thought of upcycling it around the house, but cant think of what to do with it. its a wooden daybed.
the thought of letting it go is hitting me so hard.
during her last days my mom wanted our home to look beautiful, so my brother and i are working hard to make it look great. the bed brings sadness to my siblings. i know i am being selfish, but i am crying as i write this at the thought of letting go of this bed. i know people will think im ridiculous, but i dont know what to do.
but for some reason im finding it hard to let go of her bed. just the thought of doing this makes me break down. theres no use for it, its just sitting in the living room reminding everyone of my mom being there in pain her last days. i thought of upcycling it around the house, but cant think of what to do with it. its a wooden daybed.
the thought of letting it go is hitting me so hard.
during her last days my mom wanted our home to look beautiful, so my brother and i are working hard to make it look great. the bed brings sadness to my siblings. i know i am being selfish, but i am crying as i write this at the thought of letting go of this bed. i know people will think im ridiculous, but i dont know what to do.