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Well, my BIL's ex-wife and husband have struck again--just in time for Christmas. Some background: (all names have been changed) Winnie, BIl's ex, cheated on him openly while married--to make it short, she was ROTTEN to a good man, and their 2 daughters ("Lisa" and "Mary"). She's since re-married--to a wacko as nasty as she. (I've never met, nor even spoken onthe phone, etc. to them, BTW). Lisa and Mary LOVE their biological dad ("Bob"--my BIL), and the rest of his family. They are 19 and 21, but still living with Winnie, etc.--and they are footing Lisa's veterinary school bill--all 8 years--so Lisa's beholden to them. Well, every time Lisa & Mary go to vist Bob, and then plan to come down here to visit, Winnie & hubby always sabotage their plans when they get wind of them. One time, the excuse was that that day "was a family tradition to get their hunting licenses". One problem. They never hunted before that. She's also made BIL leave early from our dinner, to drive them 400 miles back home--"Lisa has a 4H project to get done." Then, one time, Lisa was to visit; Winnie found out, then called her at college, "You have to stay ar college all weekend, Lisa--Dad & I are coming to visit. They never even showed up.Now, they were planning to come down here on 12/12 for our Christmas together. The step-father fouond out the plans, and had a meltdown--he threw things around, went crazy, etc. The girls are so hurt, and so are DH & I. I love seeing them; I only get to see them every 2 years or so, usually due to Winnie and her hubby. I had a wonderful time planned for us, and bought lots of nice gifts for them (originally, they weren't part of the plan, but that changed suddenly--and I was on CLoud 9! I ran out to buy gifts, more dishes, etc.--I was so happy!).
Wiinie and her husband are SICK, nasty, twisted, jealous, rotten people. Part of it seems as if they don't approve of the girls being around me. How sick. I'm a very good aunt; I never even curse around them. They've stayed here for a few days, and I took them shopping, cooked for them, and just loved it. Guess nasty woman is jealous...
The irony is that their nasty behavior is pushing Lisa & Mary away from them, not pulling them closer. Also, the step-father told the girls years ago that they are NOT to call Bob "Dad', only him. What a jerk.
In case you're wondering why nutty woman and the wretch have the 2 girls: when BIl was in the Army, he had to sign custody over to Winnie, in case of a war.
Wiinie and her husband are SICK, nasty, twisted, jealous, rotten people. Part of it seems as if they don't approve of the girls being around me. How sick. I'm a very good aunt; I never even curse around them. They've stayed here for a few days, and I took them shopping, cooked for them, and just loved it. Guess nasty woman is jealous...
The irony is that their nasty behavior is pushing Lisa & Mary away from them, not pulling them closer. Also, the step-father told the girls years ago that they are NOT to call Bob "Dad', only him. What a jerk.
In case you're wondering why nutty woman and the wretch have the 2 girls: when BIl was in the Army, he had to sign custody over to Winnie, in case of a war.