So we have had Kamie since like July so she is like 5-6 months old now. I have noticed she has become very aggitated when you pick her up. At first I thought maybe she was hurt, but the vet says she is fine. Now my brother who happens to be 21....immature j**k....likes to rough handle her, and is mean to her at times when she is trying to get away from him and he wont let her. He isnt really doing anything harmful to her physically but I think it is messing her up mentally. I dont know what to do, she is very loving to me, cuddles with me, follows me etc....but I can rarely pick her up. Sometimes I can calm her and make her see I am not going to hurt her and she is fine, but its like no matter how much I work to make her "better" he makes it worse. Is there really anything I can do to ease her aggitation? I try my hardest to keep the cats in my room, or away from him, he has problems. I hate seeing her being afraid of being held
it saddens me. Is there anything I can do?