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Alfie, my 9 year old indoor boy, had a run-in back in April with the biggest German Shepard (Harley) you'll ever see. When we are outside we occasionally allow Alfie and Zoe (9 year old girl) out under our supervision. Harley belongs to my brother-in-law and we were hosting a family BBQ. We let Alfie and Zoe out, and while he was on the patio my brother showed up with Harley, who actually is a really good dog. When he spotted Alfie he started to trot over to check him out. Alfie's response was instantaneous, back arched, hissing… Harley actually backed off. We all laughed and put Alfie back inside. Almost immediately he started roaming the house meowing and begging to go outside. Then just about a month later my father-in-law entered hospice at home and we spent a lot of time there helping my mother-in-law. Unfortunately that's where Harley lives. Alfie started peeing on things when we were home that we'd brought to my in-law's house and continued meowing incessantly. Shortly after my father-in-law died, Zoe got really sick and started having seizures. She ended up having chronic toxoplasmosis, which meant she'd been sick for a very long time. She's fine now, antibiotics kicked it. But it's been incredibly stressful at my house for the last few months to say the least. But I am at the end of my rope with Alfie. He's glued to my side at every opportunity. I've built an extra 10 minutes into my morning routine before work so we can spend quality time together before I leave. And I have to do the same thing when I get home. When I'm gone, my husband says he meows all day long. It should be noted, that he is still peeing on things, but only on my husband's things. If he feels like he's being ignored, he'll pop a squat on Jim's shoe, or the shorts he's accidentally left on the floor. Right now he's at the end of my seat on my foot rest, and I'm trying not to make eye contact because I want a couple moments to myself. I did have him checked out by the vet. He is physically healthy, but she said it's separation anxiety for sure. She gave me a script for Prozac but I don't want to drug him. Has anyone ever dealt with this before? I have done everything i can find online, and I started watching My Cat From Hell on TLC and have done everything Jackson Galaxy has done. I also grew cat grass hoping that would ease his desire to get out. If anyone has any suggestions or personal experience with this, please help me out!! Long rant, but I'm hoping someone has some advice.