ok this is the story:
I am 20 and i live in ny. i havent seen my mom since i was 16 years old. she lives in reno. i moved here to come stay with my grandma because my mom was addicted to drugs and i was too and had to get away from it. my mom and i didnt talk for about 3 years and then we started talking. my boyfriend and i are gonna go to reno in may for my 21st birthday, i am really excited but we are mainly going to see my bestfriend she is like my sister. but i told my mom i would see her too. although she was sober for a while, i think she may be using again. i know my mom like the back of my hand!! i am very confused on whether or not i want to see her. i recently talked to her and told her if she wasnt being good that i wasnt gonna see her and her response was fine dont come see me but im being good. my mom and i always had the reverse role where its like im the mother and she is the daughter. i have been sober now for almost 5 years and its still a struggle. my mom has always screwed everything up for me. but i want to show her that i am doing great and have grown up to be a very good young lady. my bf and i were also talking that if she is still using she needs a reality check. she hasnt seen my lil bro since he was like 8 or 9 and he is about to turn 16. crystal meth is a powerful drug. i just dont know what to do. does anyone have any suggestions??? sorry its so long too.
I am 20 and i live in ny. i havent seen my mom since i was 16 years old. she lives in reno. i moved here to come stay with my grandma because my mom was addicted to drugs and i was too and had to get away from it. my mom and i didnt talk for about 3 years and then we started talking. my boyfriend and i are gonna go to reno in may for my 21st birthday, i am really excited but we are mainly going to see my bestfriend she is like my sister. but i told my mom i would see her too. although she was sober for a while, i think she may be using again. i know my mom like the back of my hand!! i am very confused on whether or not i want to see her. i recently talked to her and told her if she wasnt being good that i wasnt gonna see her and her response was fine dont come see me but im being good. my mom and i always had the reverse role where its like im the mother and she is the daughter. i have been sober now for almost 5 years and its still a struggle. my mom has always screwed everything up for me. but i want to show her that i am doing great and have grown up to be a very good young lady. my bf and i were also talking that if she is still using she needs a reality check. she hasnt seen my lil bro since he was like 8 or 9 and he is about to turn 16. crystal meth is a powerful drug. i just dont know what to do. does anyone have any suggestions??? sorry its so long too.