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I have a 1.5 year old neutered Male I've had since he was 11 weeks old. He has other cats and dogs (he is bonded to one of the cats and one of the dogs) and my husband who isn't his favorite person, but he likes him well enough.
When I leave the house for work, go to the store, or even to go outside to work in the garden he turns into an emo teen. He sulks, sleeps in the back room, and refuses to eat, play, or any of his normal activities. When I return him he jumps on my shoulders, cries, and pretty much is clingy for several hours. Even if everyone else is at home.
Weve tried the comforting diffusers and leaving my clothing for him, but nothing seems to work.
He is also a really skittish boy when other animals/guests enter the home and is kind of dominating jerk to everyone. So I think he lacks self confidence. (His bonded brother is the exact opposite of him, so I dont think we did anything wrong, he was like that in the shelter as well)
Any tips to help my boy when I'm gone?
Pic is of me after taking a shower and being out of his sight for only 15 minutes.
When I leave the house for work, go to the store, or even to go outside to work in the garden he turns into an emo teen. He sulks, sleeps in the back room, and refuses to eat, play, or any of his normal activities. When I return him he jumps on my shoulders, cries, and pretty much is clingy for several hours. Even if everyone else is at home.
Weve tried the comforting diffusers and leaving my clothing for him, but nothing seems to work.
He is also a really skittish boy when other animals/guests enter the home and is kind of dominating jerk to everyone. So I think he lacks self confidence. (His bonded brother is the exact opposite of him, so I dont think we did anything wrong, he was like that in the shelter as well)
Any tips to help my boy when I'm gone?
Pic is of me after taking a shower and being out of his sight for only 15 minutes.
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