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Update: I still can't stroke him - tried your advice but he really wasn't keen.
BUT
He sleeps on my legs every night and tends to follow me around the house. Subtly. He'll be in the same room as me, but he acts like it's a coincidence.
He'll also come running when called - but that's mainly because he gets food then.
We did have a scary moment when we thought we'd lost him - he walked out of the back door in to our garden and hid behind the shed then climbed the wall and sat on the neighbour's shed for a while. But his escape attempt lasted about a 20 minutes before he came back in and went to sleep on the bed.
We've opened the cat flap now (live in a terraced house so cats are confined to ours and neighbour's gardens. Neighbours are cat-friendly, we have checked) so he has garden access but he isn't fussed.
He STILL hates my partner, but will be in the same room as him now/ will climb over him to get to his comfy spot on the bed when my partner is asleep.
BUT
He sleeps on my legs every night and tends to follow me around the house. Subtly. He'll be in the same room as me, but he acts like it's a coincidence.
He'll also come running when called - but that's mainly because he gets food then.
We did have a scary moment when we thought we'd lost him - he walked out of the back door in to our garden and hid behind the shed then climbed the wall and sat on the neighbour's shed for a while. But his escape attempt lasted about a 20 minutes before he came back in and went to sleep on the bed.
We've opened the cat flap now (live in a terraced house so cats are confined to ours and neighbour's gardens. Neighbours are cat-friendly, we have checked) so he has garden access but he isn't fussed.
He STILL hates my partner, but will be in the same room as him now/ will climb over him to get to his comfy spot on the bed when my partner is asleep.