My little boy is such a cutie I honestly never thought I would ever be so attached to a cat (being raised with only dogs) I've never cared or loved anything...or anyone lol for that matter as much as I love this litte sir. So let me begin by saying... He was abandoned by his mother after she was chased off by my dogs in the middle of summer in 110 degree weather. So he was hand raised by me. Which to my understanding is not really a good thing. Since being around other cats could have taught him boundaries.
I made a lot of mistakes when it came to boundaries and letting him know that my hands are not play toys. I'm paying for that now. He understands "no" to an extent but it got to the point where I had to bring out the spray bottle. That helps a lot. I'll talk on a situation so you can get a better understanding on what I'm talking about.
Sometimes we would be sitting on my bed and he'll get this weird look on his face and start to tilt his head like he was investigating my arms...I know now what that means, lol. Before I could understand these warning signs, he would tilt his head and let out a "pff" and his ears would lower a bit and he would then bite into my arm and wrap his arms around my arm to get a firm grip. If I would get up and say "NO" he would do that "pff" noise again and tilt his head back and go at my arm even harder. After about a week of this I brought in the spray bottle. Which I hate doing it because he actually likes water, but being randomly sprayed with water isn't really so pleasant :/ ..... so I really don't want to scare him away from something he enjoys. Is there something else that I could do? I heard I could use a jar of pennies or something, but I have dogs (that surprisingly get along great with my Skylar hehe
) and I don't want to scare the crap out of them while trying to manage the kitty. Hes about 9 months old and neutered.
Am I going about this the right way? And is this just a faze that he will eventually grow out of?
Thank you in advanced!! And sorry for the long thread
I made a lot of mistakes when it came to boundaries and letting him know that my hands are not play toys. I'm paying for that now. He understands "no" to an extent but it got to the point where I had to bring out the spray bottle. That helps a lot. I'll talk on a situation so you can get a better understanding on what I'm talking about.
Sometimes we would be sitting on my bed and he'll get this weird look on his face and start to tilt his head like he was investigating my arms...I know now what that means, lol. Before I could understand these warning signs, he would tilt his head and let out a "pff" and his ears would lower a bit and he would then bite into my arm and wrap his arms around my arm to get a firm grip. If I would get up and say "NO" he would do that "pff" noise again and tilt his head back and go at my arm even harder. After about a week of this I brought in the spray bottle. Which I hate doing it because he actually likes water, but being randomly sprayed with water isn't really so pleasant :/ ..... so I really don't want to scare him away from something he enjoys. Is there something else that I could do? I heard I could use a jar of pennies or something, but I have dogs (that surprisingly get along great with my Skylar hehe
Am I going about this the right way? And is this just a faze that he will eventually grow out of?
Thank you in advanced!! And sorry for the long thread
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