My precious black and white tabby is afraid of her own shadow. She hides under the bed until my husband and I have settled down for the night. Then, she is completely relaxed and loves to be loved, but she won't let us pick her up. We are scheduled to move in Mid-October and I am already stressing over how to get her from this home to our new home without causing her complete trauma. Just the thought of trying to get her into a carrier sends my fur on end. Any suggestions would be so greatly appreciated