I bought this cat from a no kill place,She is now a year old I have had her 4 months and she still won"y let me pick her up, The only way I can touch her is if I lay on my bed then she will let me pet her and she will play by the hour, But the minute I sit up she is gone! She sleeps with me every night and when she eats she wants me to sit and pet her. She sneaks around and follows me all over the house and I talk to her ,but she will not let me touch her, She is such a sweet thing but I don't know how to gain her trust and I am 72 and have had cats all my life never have I seen one like her can someone please give me some advise?