This time its not about me!
I have 2 friends. We will call the girl Em and the guy D. I set them up a few months ago and all is great. They have moved in together and are talking about marriage!
Well there is an event on next Friday that Lee and D have been planning on going to for a year now. They go every year. Well Em started a new job and works on some weekends. Em is upset that D is going. they are only going to be gone on Friday. Em thinks the Lee is a bad influence on D who is easily swayed in his decisions. She told D that she will be mad if he goes.
I don't think that is right. I love Em like family, but I totally disagree with her on this. How do I let her know that he should go since this was planned for longer than they have been together and it won't mess up their weekend together. Or should I just stay out. I thought about suggesting we do a girls night with chick flicks and popcorn since the boys will be out of town. That way I am not meddling or anything. What do you think?
I have 2 friends. We will call the girl Em and the guy D. I set them up a few months ago and all is great. They have moved in together and are talking about marriage!
I don't think that is right. I love Em like family, but I totally disagree with her on this. How do I let her know that he should go since this was planned for longer than they have been together and it won't mess up their weekend together. Or should I just stay out. I thought about suggesting we do a girls night with chick flicks and popcorn since the boys will be out of town. That way I am not meddling or anything. What do you think?