Don't feel bad Lawguy... have you ever heard the expression "no pain no gain"? Learning is often not an easy process... not for her, not for anybody - you are not doing her a favor by bailing her out, on the contrary. You will still be a good friend if you don't; ultimately it will be better for her. This is not punishment... please don't see it this way... I promise, you will be doing her a favor.Originally Posted by LawGuy
Carlolinalima - to be honest I have no rebuttal. Your two cents are sound and to be honest, I've helped bail her out of situations like this in the past several times. Not necessarily red light cameras, but other things (nothing criminal fortunately). I am enabling her unfortunately. I guess I do it because I've been close friends with her for 23 years now, since we were 4. It probably is time I let her learn a lesson the hard way. I still feel bad about it though.