I am not a big grudge holder, But I can hold a big grudge need it be, I am the kind of person that alway's tries to understand things. I don't speak before thinking, and I say what I mean and I mean what I say
I never forget and I can harbor a grudge for a LONG time.
Especially if it involves an animal. Then you better never bother trying to get on my good side, because if you hurt an animal in any way, there is no forgiving or forgetting. And you'll never be welcome in my home.