Do you have snuggle/lap cats?
Out of eleven cats I have 3 snuggle/lap kitties. Max, Sampson and Vanna love to cuddle and would lay in my lap all day if I had the time. At anytime I can pick any of the three up and love them and squeeze them and hold them and they eat it up. Now the others love to be petted but really aren't that interested in settling down for a snooze in my lap or to be picked up and carried around. They allow it but it's not their favorite thing.
Out of eleven cats I have 3 snuggle/lap kitties. Max, Sampson and Vanna love to cuddle and would lay in my lap all day if I had the time. At anytime I can pick any of the three up and love them and squeeze them and hold them and they eat it up. Now the others love to be petted but really aren't that interested in settling down for a snooze in my lap or to be picked up and carried around. They allow it but it's not their favorite thing.