Good Monday Morning/Afternoon/Evening wherever you are in the day. I just had breakfast and it's afternoon so .
My DD is getting older so I made a little joke about asking Dad when she can start to date the other day (not serious; but we talk about stuff). So she was asking me about how much I'd dated and things. DH was my only boyfriend outside of a couple other dates where there was just really no connection beyond friendship. It was nice to be able to keep guys as friends; unlike some friends back then who looked at every guy like a possible romantic connection.
Have you ever turned a date down? Or been turned down yourself? Do you think it was handled well?
I only turned someone down once. The poor guy was so shy about it he sent me a note through a pastor at our church. We'd never even talked. I think i handled it nicely. The thing was...he asked me to go to a NASCAR type race with him and his family. His mom is a pretty neat lady (though not someone I'd want for a mother in law either) but I'd rather walk naked and barefoot across a field of legos in front of a stadium full of people than go watch cars race.
My dad used to drag race. He'd take us kids to watch some races. I hated every loud, hot minute. So yeah; the poor guy really asked the wrong girl. I haven't heard from his family in over 15 years; but last I knew he did have a big family of his own. So that's nice to see. I hope he wasn't too embarrassed over it. But I wasn't raised to say yes to things just to make other people comfortable either. I hope I'm raising DD to be kind but firm too.
My DD is getting older so I made a little joke about asking Dad when she can start to date the other day (not serious; but we talk about stuff). So she was asking me about how much I'd dated and things. DH was my only boyfriend outside of a couple other dates where there was just really no connection beyond friendship. It was nice to be able to keep guys as friends; unlike some friends back then who looked at every guy like a possible romantic connection.
Have you ever turned a date down? Or been turned down yourself? Do you think it was handled well?
I only turned someone down once. The poor guy was so shy about it he sent me a note through a pastor at our church. We'd never even talked. I think i handled it nicely. The thing was...he asked me to go to a NASCAR type race with him and his family. His mom is a pretty neat lady (though not someone I'd want for a mother in law either) but I'd rather walk naked and barefoot across a field of legos in front of a stadium full of people than go watch cars race.
My dad used to drag race. He'd take us kids to watch some races. I hated every loud, hot minute. So yeah; the poor guy really asked the wrong girl. I haven't heard from his family in over 15 years; but last I knew he did have a big family of his own. So that's nice to see. I hope he wasn't too embarrassed over it. But I wasn't raised to say yes to things just to make other people comfortable either. I hope I'm raising DD to be kind but firm too.