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really not sure were to post this, maybe this is just gonna be a sounding board im not sure, many of you may have seen this thread by now..
http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho....php?p=2505662
it was around the beginning of novemeber this happend, hubby understanadbly is very upset, this is were the prob comes in!
when we lost henry we let his parents take on the 2 gingers as we couldnt deal with them at the time, they settled in really easily and have adapted, soo...
My way of dealing with it, is by trying to talk and remebering him, it kinda helps ease the ache, maybe its just a womens thing
now hubby & his way of dealng with it....get another cat, he has put down a deposit on another already, he doesnt want the gingers back as they were so close to henry, its almost like he wants a fresh start, wipe henry from memory and move on
also his parents ahve fallen in love and he dont wana uproot them as they sadly lost there 17yr old dog in october
iI said can we please wait, but he wont says it will help him get over henry, this one isnt due to be ready till end jan, so I have a few weeks to try and talk sense into him, but what do you lot think?
is it wrong to get anther kitten so soon after henrys loss, also whats henry gonna think? I dont want to forgot henry, we have a couple pics up in pride of place, but oh I dont know so hard to explain, I just wish I understood men more!
sorry mods if this in the wrong place
http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho....php?p=2505662
it was around the beginning of novemeber this happend, hubby understanadbly is very upset, this is were the prob comes in!
when we lost henry we let his parents take on the 2 gingers as we couldnt deal with them at the time, they settled in really easily and have adapted, soo...
My way of dealing with it, is by trying to talk and remebering him, it kinda helps ease the ache, maybe its just a womens thing
now hubby & his way of dealng with it....get another cat, he has put down a deposit on another already, he doesnt want the gingers back as they were so close to henry, its almost like he wants a fresh start, wipe henry from memory and move on
also his parents ahve fallen in love and he dont wana uproot them as they sadly lost there 17yr old dog in october
iI said can we please wait, but he wont says it will help him get over henry, this one isnt due to be ready till end jan, so I have a few weeks to try and talk sense into him, but what do you lot think?
is it wrong to get anther kitten so soon after henrys loss, also whats henry gonna think? I dont want to forgot henry, we have a couple pics up in pride of place, but oh I dont know so hard to explain, I just wish I understood men more!
sorry mods if this in the wrong place