I have never been pregnant, but try to find an OBGYN that specializes in first time older moms. A friend of mine was in her 30's and got pregnant for the first time. She had been told in her 20's that she would never conceive, so when she met her BF, they didn't use protection. She now has a healthy 4 yr old daughter. The ONLY girl on her daddy's side. She has lots of boy cousins! LOL Can you say her grandma spoils her? LOL