I have to figure out a way to get kitty to the vet because she spent three days in a cage: day 1 figuring out where to put her day 2-3 setting up the place. we gave her food and water and she calmed down with us...until we had to move her to release her. She didn't eat until the night of the second day and after we put her in the new place today when we found her she was menstruating and we had seen a cat on her multiple times the day we tried to catch her AND she hasn't gone to the bathroom. we put her in the new area today. How do I get her to go to the bathroom, how do I get her to calm down enough to eat and how long until I see the early signs of pregnancy, I already know the late ones, but I need to know SOON. Please help