Oh, poor Sebastian! Family members mean well. I actually think my step-dad would care for the cats the best, but he and my mom live too far away to make the trip twice a day. I've thought about perhaps taking the cats to their house, but would want to take them for visits first. Tim is super shy around other people. Good thought about the sitter and will definitely keep that in mind when the time comes. My best option right now might be to inquire about boarding facilities and services at our new vet.
If the sitter you want declines due to distance, perhaps offer to pay the cost of gas in addition to her fee (if you can afford it). If she still declines, perhaps she could recommend someone closer to your area.
I know how you feel on the whole vacation thing. When my SO and I went away in June of this year, I had my mom come over twice a day and feed the cats and administer all their medications. The only thing she said she wouldn't do is Sebastian's sub-q fluids. She did okay with the medications, but I did have them all ready to go, labeled for each cat for each day.But she struggled a bit with the food. I told her Sebastian needed one whole can of food per day, and more if he wanted it. When I checked in a few times, she kept saying that Sebastian wouldn't stop crying to eat. I thought that was strange. When I got home, there were unopened cans left on the counter and when I calculated how much she had given him in the week we were gone, she was basically starving him! Not intentionally obviously, but she was just completely clueless despite my instructions and she really thought she was giving him enough to eat. Looks like I won't be going away again for awhile.
Glad to hear things have settled down with Tim!
Congrats on your first marble poop! Here's hoping for many more.
I got my first "marble poop" today! It was so light color that I thought it was a giant parasite but then realized it was a hair ball from our orange tabby.
Oh, man.In news about Tim, he still seems a little off. I slept in this morning and fed an hour later than normal. Usually Tim is trying to wake me up at 30 minutes. This morning, he was not. When I went to the kitchen, he followed me but did not dance around and meow for food. He ate, though, and cleaned his bowl. When I got to the litter box, I noticed he did poop. It was a pretty small amount, because he cleaned out yesterday morning, and part of it was soft. So he's improved but is not completely normal yet. I can only guess this is from too much high-fat canned food, as I'd seen this before when I tried to feed him too much Instinct canned turkey after the formula changed and became more "juicy" (fat). Will continue with only Rad Cat tonight and the lean raw rabbit again tomorrow (normally we would alternate to the high fat, but will wait until he seems better, and I may have to gradually get back to where we were).
I have to say that I still like Instinct canned food, but am so disappointed that they seem to be cutting costs by increasing the fat content of the foods. This was a perfect food for Tim, but now he gets these reactions - upset stomach, swollen chin - if I feed too much. Ugh.