There are two feral cats who hang around where I work (office building). I leave food out for them, which seems to attract any stray or lost cat in the area. There's a beautiful gray male cat that showed up about two months ago. First time I saw him, he was in great shape, but not neutered. Friendly - must be lost. I filed a found report at the Humane Society and checked their entire log of lost reports - no luck. I have a Halo scanner that didn't detect a chip, but it doesn't read all chips. It's been two months of him showing up irregularly and he's now looking thin and has two huge scabs on his head. I don't think the wounds are infected, but I don't know. I cannot take him home. I currently have nine cats due to strays/lost cats/injured cats. I cannot take any more. No luck at the Humane Society and I can't find a normal home for him. If I get him fixed, I can take him to a friend's farm where he'll be one of many barn/outside cats. Will the other cats accept him, will he hate it, will he get any attention or love? I don't know. I don't want to take him to the pound because if he has health problems (like FIV), they'll put him to sleep. Do I take him to the farm? What's better for the cat? I'll be literally snatching him from his current life without his consent and without knowing if he'll be happier. I completely freeze up with indecision in these situations and delay taking action, but I'm worried about his injuries. Please tell me what I should do.