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Ok,
I grew up with dogs and my girlfriend has a cat. I have found that over the last six months I have treated her cat like I would a dog,
I.e. when the cat is upset I make it sit with me etc.
Anyway on christmas I bathed the cat and wound up with scars, the cat also wound up pooping while i did this at which point i stopped. then on christmas I held her down so i could brush her stomache.
Now the cat whenever I get near crouches and runs away, its ears go straight down and it wont even sleep in the room with my girlfriend and I. It's like the cat thinks I am going to hurt it. I would NEVER hurt the cat. I just never had to deal with one and I should have listened.
This is getting to the point where I am worried about it crushing my relationship. Does anyone have any advice please?
I grew up with dogs and my girlfriend has a cat. I have found that over the last six months I have treated her cat like I would a dog,
I.e. when the cat is upset I make it sit with me etc.
Anyway on christmas I bathed the cat and wound up with scars, the cat also wound up pooping while i did this at which point i stopped. then on christmas I held her down so i could brush her stomache.
Now the cat whenever I get near crouches and runs away, its ears go straight down and it wont even sleep in the room with my girlfriend and I. It's like the cat thinks I am going to hurt it. I would NEVER hurt the cat. I just never had to deal with one and I should have listened.
This is getting to the point where I am worried about it crushing my relationship. Does anyone have any advice please?