Hi, I really need some helpful guidance because my little kitty cat is so unhappy at the moment. I don't wish to bore you with a huge, detailed account of my past so i'll try and keep this as simple as possible.
My fiance and I rescued two tiny kittens with cat flu last November who have always been quite sickly and weak. They are called Pixie and Mojo. Both pulled through and grew to be happy healthy 6mnth olds.
two weeks ago, my fiance and I broke up. I moved out and got a small flat with a friend and He moved in with a work mate.He took one cat and I took the other as neither of our flatmates would allow both to live with them and my fiance could not bear to part with Mojo who was always 'his cat'.
So far, mojo has been doing great with my ex but it is not the case for Pixie. He is very tense and although he is still affectionate and loves cuddles for reassurance, he meows and howls constantly during the evening and night. I have tried to deal with this by calling him into my bedroom for reassurance and to try and take his mind off things. This didn't work so I tried ignoring him and so far have had no luck.
I understand that he misses his brother and that the situation is pretty miserable for him and for that I feel terribly guilty as I have changed his living arrangement drastically. My flat is rented and some of the neighbours have commented about the noise.
I feel awful for him and really want to help him to adjust and become the happy little cat he was.
Thanks, Jen x
My fiance and I rescued two tiny kittens with cat flu last November who have always been quite sickly and weak. They are called Pixie and Mojo. Both pulled through and grew to be happy healthy 6mnth olds.
two weeks ago, my fiance and I broke up. I moved out and got a small flat with a friend and He moved in with a work mate.He took one cat and I took the other as neither of our flatmates would allow both to live with them and my fiance could not bear to part with Mojo who was always 'his cat'.
So far, mojo has been doing great with my ex but it is not the case for Pixie. He is very tense and although he is still affectionate and loves cuddles for reassurance, he meows and howls constantly during the evening and night. I have tried to deal with this by calling him into my bedroom for reassurance and to try and take his mind off things. This didn't work so I tried ignoring him and so far have had no luck.
I understand that he misses his brother and that the situation is pretty miserable for him and for that I feel terribly guilty as I have changed his living arrangement drastically. My flat is rented and some of the neighbours have commented about the noise.
I feel awful for him and really want to help him to adjust and become the happy little cat he was.
Thanks, Jen x