My cat Cowie is about a year and a half old now and in the last 2 months she has changed a lot. She has gotten very aggressive. Last week she pooped all over my clean clothes I had on my bed. I was doing like 13 loads of laundry and I hadnt put it away yet and she just pooped on it. Then the next day she pooped on dirty clothes that were on the floor. We just bought a new couch like 3 weeks ago that we usually keep a blanket on so it doesnt get messed up, but 2 days we didnt have it on. I left the cat in the house and left for about 5 hours. when my husband got home he asked me why the couch was wet. The cat had peed or sprayed or something on my couch. My husband doesnt have much patience for stuff like that and he thinks we should just get rid of her. But I dont want to get rid of her. I feel like that it would be like getting rid of my son just because he had an accident. I just need to make her stop peeing. What should I do?