so this is kind of a strange question...I have several cats, and i also have a very weird/crazy mother, who comes occasionally and helps out. One of my cats has been having a lot of weird issues....it seems digestive but now it's UTI...my mother had a male cat who recently died of a kidney type disease. My question is alittle far fetched but im just wondering basically. I'm not saying this is actually happening but just saying what if. Now once when I went away years ago on a trip, my nutty crazy mother came in and turned all the fans and AC off...leaving my two cats suffering in heat for six days. I flipped out when I got back because I had no idea. They could have died, luckily they lived but have had breathing problems since. I was furious at my mother who is a sociopath I assume and she literally defended herself to this day as if she did nothing wrong, and that 85-90 degrees was TOTALLY ok for the cats and even threatened the police on me. She did all that to get back at ME...ie hurt my cats. it was horrendous and no one helped or cared and even tried to blame me ie the victim. Yes I knew she was evil and disturbed but I didn't think she would go so far as to trying to hurt my cats that way. No one in my family helped me and EVERYONE defended her...so me and my cats didn get anything except more harassment and mistreatment. In fact my sister said my mother could have called the cops on me b/c I yelled at her...or something. My mother is 60 years old and deranged and is capable of anything from what ive seen. She's still in my life because...I have no one where I live who can help out so yes I invite a sociopath but again you don't THINK that she is doing something malicious to you...
I have always feared/suspected something when it came to the cats...fear of her doing something bad to them...recently, I took a trip out of state again and I feared she might come and hurt my cats again. I have a few more now so I have four so I was terrified. I told her many times...that she better not come or touch the AC at my place. (I live in a place my parents own and pay my dad rent why she even has keys--technically she sees it as her place)...I did install Skype and she did come the last night I was away...but everything SEEMED to be ok? ..for the past 1.5 months one of my cats has been having some weird issues. my mother's male cat recently died of kidney issues and somewhere in the back of my mind...I did suspect foul play on her part...though I doubt it but its just something I feared/suspected but ot course im not sure have no proof or real reason...this time however, my favorite cat has just been having LOTS of weird problems. the vet hasn't been good and its been trying. when I called my mother regarding the care credit card that's in her name, that I use and pay for, she said "theyre just RIPPING you off....she has a kidney problem." I said...how on earth would you know she has a kidney problem...huh?? so her statement...of course now is scaring the crap out of me. why would she even say that? yes she may have just SAID it....but honestly...a devious sociopath like her....someone who would carefully plan something..to sabotage/hurt someone or a pet....she Is fully capable and has DONE before. I cant fight it because everyone else in my family treats me like im evil for accusing her of what she does and apparently she can get away with murder if she wants....so with this long explanation my question is..
if someone DID want to directly hurt a cat's kidneys...in some form...what could they POSSIBLY do to cause this??? of course im sure there are a number of ways....toxins, poisons etc...whoi knows...but is there something SPECIFIC that a person can do to actually cause kidney problems in a cat??? now im really scared that she might be doing something....I don't know what she could be doing but that's the problem. Sometimes shes with them alone...maybe for a day while im at work. she only stays one night but people who are evil/devious find ways of doing what they want to do. im really scared now b/c I find it so WEIRD she said the cat had kidney issues....why would she say that??? its as if she knew..and was saying oh youre wasting your time...I said...why would you think its kidney issues? she said....well what else could It be??? this woman is VERY sick apparently and capable of anything....does anyone know how a person could hurt a cat's kidneys..anything specific they could do/use....im searching around my house to try to find things...but I don't think I will. could she be feeding them something on the side??? im really scared now..and scared for my cats...
I have always feared/suspected something when it came to the cats...fear of her doing something bad to them...recently, I took a trip out of state again and I feared she might come and hurt my cats again. I have a few more now so I have four so I was terrified. I told her many times...that she better not come or touch the AC at my place. (I live in a place my parents own and pay my dad rent why she even has keys--technically she sees it as her place)...I did install Skype and she did come the last night I was away...but everything SEEMED to be ok? ..for the past 1.5 months one of my cats has been having some weird issues. my mother's male cat recently died of kidney issues and somewhere in the back of my mind...I did suspect foul play on her part...though I doubt it but its just something I feared/suspected but ot course im not sure have no proof or real reason...this time however, my favorite cat has just been having LOTS of weird problems. the vet hasn't been good and its been trying. when I called my mother regarding the care credit card that's in her name, that I use and pay for, she said "theyre just RIPPING you off....she has a kidney problem." I said...how on earth would you know she has a kidney problem...huh?? so her statement...of course now is scaring the crap out of me. why would she even say that? yes she may have just SAID it....but honestly...a devious sociopath like her....someone who would carefully plan something..to sabotage/hurt someone or a pet....she Is fully capable and has DONE before. I cant fight it because everyone else in my family treats me like im evil for accusing her of what she does and apparently she can get away with murder if she wants....so with this long explanation my question is..
if someone DID want to directly hurt a cat's kidneys...in some form...what could they POSSIBLY do to cause this??? of course im sure there are a number of ways....toxins, poisons etc...whoi knows...but is there something SPECIFIC that a person can do to actually cause kidney problems in a cat??? now im really scared that she might be doing something....I don't know what she could be doing but that's the problem. Sometimes shes with them alone...maybe for a day while im at work. she only stays one night but people who are evil/devious find ways of doing what they want to do. im really scared now b/c I find it so WEIRD she said the cat had kidney issues....why would she say that??? its as if she knew..and was saying oh youre wasting your time...I said...why would you think its kidney issues? she said....well what else could It be??? this woman is VERY sick apparently and capable of anything....does anyone know how a person could hurt a cat's kidneys..anything specific they could do/use....im searching around my house to try to find things...but I don't think I will. could she be feeding them something on the side??? im really scared now..and scared for my cats...