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Hi, I'm new to this forum so I'll give a little background first before getting into what the problem is. My husband and I had 3 cats for the longest time. Two males that we got as kittens in 2001 and a female tortie that I adopted in 2006 as a 6 month old cat. They all got along pretty well. On December 24 2012 we had to put one of the males, Cow, an amazing black and white cat, to sleep after a brief illness (we think it was cancer). He was the love of our lives. After a month or so we wanted to get a kitten to help get over the pain of losing him. I had read that if we got two kittens they could play together and not bother the older cats as much. I had always wanted a Ragdoll cat, so we found a breeder and on February 9th we picked up two little boys, Beau and Hamlet.
I had done some research online about the best way to introduce a new cat and for the first week the kittens were sequestered in the bedroom. Eventually we had to let them out, they were desparate to run around an play. Our oldest cat, Tig, hissed a bit at first, but is fine with them now. I won't say he loves them, but he isn't aggressive. Our female, Honey, is another story.
After three weeks it's still just as bad as it was the first day. When she sees the kittens she makes this god awful moaning sound and hisses. She actually lunges at them and tries to hurt them. Last night I was holding Ham and she made a swipe at him. Thankfully she hit me, but her claws were out and it drew blood. I was horrified because if she had landed her mark the kitten would have been injured.
I did the slow intro, I have feliway spray and the diffuser plugged in. I have tried transfering their scents back and forth. It's strange, she still sleeps with me at night and is affectionate towards me. She just becomes enraged when she sees the kittens. We are still keeping the kittens in another room at night and while we are at work for their safety.
I was just wondering if anyone else had this problem before and has any advice? I know that eventually they will get big enough to defend themselves, but I would like to allow them to walk around the house freely before then. I am considering asking my vet about anti-anxiety meds for her but I would prefer a natural solution. Getting rid of her or the kittens is not an option.
Thanks in advance!
I had done some research online about the best way to introduce a new cat and for the first week the kittens were sequestered in the bedroom. Eventually we had to let them out, they were desparate to run around an play. Our oldest cat, Tig, hissed a bit at first, but is fine with them now. I won't say he loves them, but he isn't aggressive. Our female, Honey, is another story.
After three weeks it's still just as bad as it was the first day. When she sees the kittens she makes this god awful moaning sound and hisses. She actually lunges at them and tries to hurt them. Last night I was holding Ham and she made a swipe at him. Thankfully she hit me, but her claws were out and it drew blood. I was horrified because if she had landed her mark the kitten would have been injured.
I did the slow intro, I have feliway spray and the diffuser plugged in. I have tried transfering their scents back and forth. It's strange, she still sleeps with me at night and is affectionate towards me. She just becomes enraged when she sees the kittens. We are still keeping the kittens in another room at night and while we are at work for their safety.
I was just wondering if anyone else had this problem before and has any advice? I know that eventually they will get big enough to defend themselves, but I would like to allow them to walk around the house freely before then. I am considering asking my vet about anti-anxiety meds for her but I would prefer a natural solution. Getting rid of her or the kittens is not an option.
Thanks in advance!