My darling PJ (17 yrs old) passed away two months ago. I miss her terribly and I always will. Since then I have adopted a new cat, Smokey. I love him very much and he makes me very happy but I still cry for my darling girl, even while petting Smokey. After PJ died I had a conversation with her and asked her to send me a new furry friend when she thought I was ready. Logically I know she had nothing to do with me choosing Smokey but it makes me feel better to think that she did. I have No desire to return Smokey to the shelter. I guess I didn't take enough time to grieve but my brother called me twice in one day asking me to visit this cat. Are my feelings normal?
I hope I posted this in the right forum.
I hope I posted this in the right forum.