I'm starting this thread to get external opinions on something that has been presenting itself in my life quite frequently.
It seems to always be a problem to everyone except for me.
OVERTHINKING!
Yes! I have a very active imagination but I've learned to control it so that it doesn't affect my day to day life.
I tend to be more organized than the average person and like when things are consistent, clear, and straight to the point.
I also tend to analyze situations excessively because I enjoy planning and exploring every possible outcome in my head.
Yet, in my dating life and also just my life life in general, people always tell me that I think too much.
"You're thinking wayyyy too much!"
"You overthink too much!"
"It's not that serious, relax. You are overthinking."
Is this a negative trait to have? I would say that it is kind of intertwined with my personality type and I feel it is something that cannot be helped.
What do you guys think?
I would also like to know if there are other things (that you have experienced) that people often see as a negative attribute when to you, it is completely normal.
It seems to always be a problem to everyone except for me.
OVERTHINKING!
Yes! I have a very active imagination but I've learned to control it so that it doesn't affect my day to day life.
I tend to be more organized than the average person and like when things are consistent, clear, and straight to the point.
I also tend to analyze situations excessively because I enjoy planning and exploring every possible outcome in my head.
Yet, in my dating life and also just my life life in general, people always tell me that I think too much.
"You're thinking wayyyy too much!"
"You overthink too much!"
"It's not that serious, relax. You are overthinking."
Is this a negative trait to have? I would say that it is kind of intertwined with my personality type and I feel it is something that cannot be helped.
What do you guys think?
I would also like to know if there are other things (that you have experienced) that people often see as a negative attribute when to you, it is completely normal.