Hi All,
I've written here 3 months prior about our adopted cat Mouse, that was extremely play and physically aggressive towards my boyfriend and I. We got some GREAT advice and started implementing them immediately and also followed the advice of the shelters cat behaviorist. Unfortunately, nothing seems to be working and actually might be getting worse.
We visited a vet, and nothing seems to be wrong with her physically so it's not a health issue.
At this point in time, Mouse has given my boyfriend and I both scratches and bites that we've had to go see a doctor for. There weren't provoked, usually happens after we play and feed her. She'll pounce with ears back, and when we sternly say "NO" and push her away, she will continue attacking until one of us scruffs her and puts her away in a bathroom. These have been happening with increased frequency, and the only solution anyone will give us is to play with her more.
We're already playing with her for 1 hour a day broken up to 3 sessions, but honestly sometimes I just get so frustrated. As a first time pet owner, I can't touch this cat, I'm getting beat up by her, and it's putting a HUGE amount of stress on our relationship.
I honestly don't think it's normal for a cat to actively jump into the shower with you, claw the crap out of your leg, then run away.
My guess is that she has not been properly socialized, and that her behavior is now pretty much learned. We sometimes invite friends over, and give them treats to give her, but she'll usually just bite/scratch them.
Her body language is also strange, she doesn't seem cornered or angry when she attacks, she just does. She never purrs at anything, and only has her tail up when she attacks or eats.
We have her on Feliway plug-ins for 1+ month now but are not seeing results. Anyone know what else we can do? We're seriously considering returning her to the shelter, as we've exhausted all options. We rather put her on my boyfriend's mother's farm to see if she'd enjoy that open space, but is that ethical? We're pulling out our hair and to be completely honest on this anonymous internet forum, I frankly am having a hard time bonding with her and don't particularly enjoy having her as a pet.
I've written here 3 months prior about our adopted cat Mouse, that was extremely play and physically aggressive towards my boyfriend and I. We got some GREAT advice and started implementing them immediately and also followed the advice of the shelters cat behaviorist. Unfortunately, nothing seems to be working and actually might be getting worse.
We visited a vet, and nothing seems to be wrong with her physically so it's not a health issue.
At this point in time, Mouse has given my boyfriend and I both scratches and bites that we've had to go see a doctor for. There weren't provoked, usually happens after we play and feed her. She'll pounce with ears back, and when we sternly say "NO" and push her away, she will continue attacking until one of us scruffs her and puts her away in a bathroom. These have been happening with increased frequency, and the only solution anyone will give us is to play with her more.
We're already playing with her for 1 hour a day broken up to 3 sessions, but honestly sometimes I just get so frustrated. As a first time pet owner, I can't touch this cat, I'm getting beat up by her, and it's putting a HUGE amount of stress on our relationship.
I honestly don't think it's normal for a cat to actively jump into the shower with you, claw the crap out of your leg, then run away.
My guess is that she has not been properly socialized, and that her behavior is now pretty much learned. We sometimes invite friends over, and give them treats to give her, but she'll usually just bite/scratch them.
Her body language is also strange, she doesn't seem cornered or angry when she attacks, she just does. She never purrs at anything, and only has her tail up when she attacks or eats.
We have her on Feliway plug-ins for 1+ month now but are not seeing results. Anyone know what else we can do? We're seriously considering returning her to the shelter, as we've exhausted all options. We rather put her on my boyfriend's mother's farm to see if she'd enjoy that open space, but is that ethical? We're pulling out our hair and to be completely honest on this anonymous internet forum, I frankly am having a hard time bonding with her and don't particularly enjoy having her as a pet.