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I have a mother cat (estimated 2-3 years old) and one of her male kittens (estimated 11 months old) that I rescued from living outdoors in my neighborhood. I believe the mother was abandoned so she has lived in a house before. The male kitten hasn't but was being fed by people. They are indoor/outdoor cats but they do stay in at night now. I have overcome most of the obstacles so far but right now there is one problem I want to squash. The male joins me on the couch and gets in my lap and snuggles next to me. Sometimes I have to move him. Well he bites me. He also will bite if I pet him and I didn't realize he didn't want this. The first pet. He broke skin once. I tried saying ow and moving him off the sofa, grabbing his scruff and putting him outside, twicking his nose slightly, and once giving him a good toss. (sorry but that is when he really bit me and broke skin) So now he knows he shouldn't bite and he goes to bite and then puts his head down or jumps off himself. But he still wants to bite and will even get on his back and use paws to get ready for a fight.
I want to be dominate without fear. I have to protect my 15 year old 6 pound dog and the cat needs to know I make the rules. What should I do?
PS: they both can get skiddish real easy. They run if other people come in the house. Maybe it will all work out.
I want to be dominate without fear. I have to protect my 15 year old 6 pound dog and the cat needs to know I make the rules. What should I do?
PS: they both can get skiddish real easy. They run if other people come in the house. Maybe it will all work out.