I have four cats of varying ages, and the three youngest get along great. However, Milly, my oldest, is rather stand-offish from the rest of the clan. She doesn't play with them, and the only time she'll really acknowledge their existence is when Angel makes her mad and she chases her. (And not in a playful way, more like "I'm gonna beat you up")
Is there anyway I can get her to be part of the group? I feel bad that she's being left out of the group and worry that she's unhappy. Or should I just accept that she's antisocial and hates everyone but my husband?
And instead of making an entire new topic here's my other problem:
One of our cats insists on using the sink and the bathtub as her toilet. She only pees in it, but I'm at a total loss as to what to do. I've only caught her in the act a few times, and I've sternly told her no and moved her to the litterbox but it doesn't seem to help. We keep the bathroom door closed as often as possible but for the sink, all I can think of is keeping a little bit of water in it at all times.
Thanks in advance. :-)
Is there anyway I can get her to be part of the group? I feel bad that she's being left out of the group and worry that she's unhappy. Or should I just accept that she's antisocial and hates everyone but my husband?
And instead of making an entire new topic here's my other problem:
One of our cats insists on using the sink and the bathtub as her toilet. She only pees in it, but I'm at a total loss as to what to do. I've only caught her in the act a few times, and I've sternly told her no and moved her to the litterbox but it doesn't seem to help. We keep the bathroom door closed as often as possible but for the sink, all I can think of is keeping a little bit of water in it at all times.
Thanks in advance. :-)